Monday, December 7, 2009

Love


  
Love - being the favorite topic for most of all and I believe the existence of the world is because of the bonding by  this mysterious feeling among the people. And I'm damn sure that it is so true. But people are being so materialistic even in loving others. It provoked me to write this post.

   I'll say people are too materialistic as if they will love only their own belongings like THEIR parents, THEIR friends, THEIR relatives etc, as they possess 'THEIR' feeling in such relationship. If so how can one be lovable to such a stranger (the so called 'lover' or 'life partner'), those they live with for the rest of their lifetime (I can call them only strangers as we deal with only conscious mind of ours when we approach unknown persons for the first time).

   If someone can approach with such 'somebody', then he/she can do it with every stranger (At least not to hate even if they are not synchronous). So, I strongly believe that the essence of every relationship is love and only appearance differs; as people call them with different names. If you know Tamil, you can get my exact point because everyone prefers their mother tongue (even Mahatma encourages learning in ones mother tongue):
           " Uravugalin karu ondruthan (anbu), parimanam mattumae vevveraga thondri nirkiradhu "
                                                   (its my point of view)
   Whatever may be the reason, just LOVE people with all regards, disregarding some glimpse of false.
If everyone turns out to be a philanthropist, if the world feels the warmth of love, we are not even going to smell the death of the earth. Moreover it is a natural thing existing in everyone's heart where most of them don't even know whether they possess such qualities who are all named for their cruel nature but only kind to such 'THEIR' persons.

   So, lets LOVE people and not possessions.

12 comments:

  1. I understood so far from your opinions that only secularism will make the people to love each other .Unconditional love should be within the human beings without any expectation. I agree with you. But if is possible in the world, then no need of wars, civil cases between relatives. anger, murder, fight,arguments("Being good to the society is doing good to the society") and the world will be happy because no one will expect anything from any one except love.All will do their own duties successfully. I love your thoughts.Since you are insisting religion will be a hindrance to treat all equally, I also like secularism ,though belief about my religion is inside my heart. But I never treated anyone specially or rudely because of they belong to mine or other.

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  2. Having a strong command over religion and belief itself includes a "THEIR" feeling which prevents in being secular. And this feeling has influence in all the things we do. I can't say it is the only thing which decreases our love to others but some other likes and dislikes from within is also responsible. But major contribution is by "THEIR" feeling of possession. This posting is not intended to denote any person's quality in particular but its my general opinion. I hope you got it.

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  3. Opinion differs. Any how, I got your point. I respect it also. Thanks for replying me.

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  4. Absolutely said. Opinion differs. I wrote it as I expect secularism among people, because I am like everyone else who likes to see the world in terms of what one would like to see happen and not what it actually does.

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  5. Very few will have the mentality of mine irrespective of any religion. But I know that you won't be satisfied with very few. In the cases of very few I wrote mine to represent people of very few. You will again argue with me "irrespective of any religion" since you are secular.Possessions also has the power to decrease understanding,love and care especially money has all the powers to separate even the closed ones.(money plays an important role in separation as far as my observation so far in the world.)

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  6. I am not a human exception as I also expect something from people. Here, as of now, I expect secularism. I know its hard to get from all people but still I expect. Poor boy, you see..!
    And you are right about what possessions are..!

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  7. As far as my life, if two persons are very caring, understanding and loving each other outside the family relations,though they are of the same sex,especially for women, the family members in our days could not understood the purity in their love and often peeps through with some unwanted comments having the possession of "our family" member so much gets attached with the person who is not blood related and they themselves imagine that the other person's intrusion in their family, though both are harmless.Actually both would be the silent listeners when each of them share their problems or suggesting some ideas considering the other one's problems as their own problems in an unbiased way without having one side opinions and even not to forget to point out the other person's mistakes to lead life smoothly.Parents and siblings without having rivalry of their friendship thinking that their family member has the right to choose the friend and parents should understand that their children come through them and not their and also siblings' belongings.This mentality is needed for husband and wife also having outside family affections till they are harmless. The same attitude is needed nowadays for choosing friends or life partners. Emotional attachment between the family members won't be a emotional harassment to the particular person having outside the family members as their friends.Nowadays even the harmless friendship between opposite sex is possible, why the persons in our period is so possessive of their family member having harmless relationship between same sex? Anum, anum kollum peru nesam pesappadumbothu ordinary house wives milekalukku appal kollapadum nesam aliyumbothu vethanai aha ullathu. koperuncholan-pisiranthiyar,Raman-kugan,Thuriothanan-karnan,Greek il Pythias- Damon, marunthukku kooda pennum, pennum kollum natpu pesapadavilai.Autograph padathil varum Cheran pola palaiya natpe thedi pogum pengal irukka mudiyuma? Palli kala siru vayathu nanban, kalluri nanban ena thedi,thedi poi invitation koodukka mudiyuma athvum one generation back il.Than thun kudmbum enru pennin meethu engal kalathil porthppatta selfish blanket than karanam.(neram illai enbathagavum irukkalam) Nanbanin maranathi vida natpin maranam kodiathu. Natpin maranathirkku piragum en manathil natpe uyirpodu vaithulaen enru solli kolvathil perumai padugiraen.Possessions aha family members i karuthum thani nabar mentality irukkum varaiyil nalla natpu kooda uyirudan vaithiruppathu engal generation il sathiyamilae enra vethanai udan mudikkiraen.

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  8. If III world war comes, it is merely because of religions only.This is my inner most fear in my heart about religions.

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  9. You have to know that expectation (may be about the good cause also) always hurts.

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  10. I think there is no need for III world war as a separate one, as it is a calm war prevailing in this world even now. Slow destruction. And this expectation had hurt me many times deeply already but I wont stop at this.

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  11. Kamal, whenever I think of you, while doing my duties, your thought "secularism" encroached me. You influenced me by your unselfish thought to love all above all discriminations.Your friendship gives me emotionally a secured feeling as the friendship I lost.I see the survival of the lost friendship in the form of yours since you taught me a lot as a Thagappan Sami' Your hurt is my hurt since you are my son and a friend dear!Don't loose heart. At least all can have love marriages in this generation irrespective of caste & religion.making future generation a secular one. Once again hats off to you for your thoughts & friendship.

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  12. Thanks a ton for the above comments.

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